'I knew this would happen': Guy weighs breaking up with entitled girlfriend after she locks him out of his own apartment

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Ben Weiss • Writer and Editor
Feb 5, 2025 2:00 PM EST

It's normal to want to perform acts of kindness for your significant other, but most couples expect some element of reciprocity. Of course, no one should keep a tally like it's a competition, but when it becomes obvious that one partner is far more generous than the other, that may cause trouble for the future of the relationship.

If you have ever found yourself in an imbalanced relationship and you're trying to reason with what to do next, try to think objective facts. If you have done x, y, and z and they have done nothing when you have asked for help, talk to your partner about it calmly and factually before things get too imbalanced. This couple understands what that feeling is like…

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    "My GF [locked] me out of my own apartment"
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  • This guy was kind enough to drive his girlfriend's friend home after a night out, which was a full hour away. His girlfriend wasn't feeling well and insisted on staying in her boyfriend's apartment while he made the trip. He was fine with this under the condition that his girlfriend stayed awake so that he wouldn't get locked out of his own apartment. She promised she would and claimed that he was overreacting. One can just guess what happened next…

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    GF went inside to pthen was too sick to come back out to drive with me to drop her friend off (1 hr), I knew she would fall asleep so I tried to avoid getting locked out and it happened. anyway. I was so tired and frustrated last night.
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    Keys to my car find her purse take her home I'm not feeling well Just text me Just text me Ok I need the fob To get back in tonight No pls I don't wanna risk u falling asleep
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    text me I need the fob What's going on come on I need my keys and fob I'm throwing up just pls take her home It's my apt
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    I will Ok Please please please stay awake 1:18 AM 1:18 AM I have to drive for an hour 1:18 AM 1:19 AM Ok be safe feel better 1:21 AM I'm otw 1:43 AM Ru awake 1:43 AM 25 min 1:43 AM
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    25 min 1:43 AM 5 min away 2:00 AM Here 2nd floor door at gym 2:04 AM Ok... 2:12 AM I knew this would happen 2:22 AM
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    I want to say this while it's fresh in my head. I wanted to go inside with you to make sure you were ok, and you said no. I then asked for the fob several times, and you said no. Then I said fine make sure you're awake so I'm not locked out, and you said yes. Then I
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    get back and was locked out for 40 minutes. I banged on the door, I called emergency maintenance, I set off multiple alexa alarms, I even resorted to set off your phone to DMing with find my iPhone to avoid having to call a locksmith. I tried to prevent this exact situation from happening.
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    I understand that you were drk and not feeling well but I need you to listen to me in moments like this because it was frustrating and completely avoidable.
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  • Several members of the online community defended the feelings of the boyfriend, stating that he was neither overreacting nor in the wrong. In fact, many folks felt he could have taken it a step further and broken up with her right then and there!

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    Grapefruit No6222 NOR this would so much me off
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    Fit_cell_1577 she has no respect for you and her drakenness just amplified the fact
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    Lumpy_Ad_9763 · Nah that was so avoidable and she was being too r de to you. Why would she curse at you while you're doing her friend a favour? Why
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    couldn't she just give you the fob ?!? Why couldn't she get her friend an Uber? Why did she ignore your calls, texts and Alexa alarms? Is she that heavy of a sleeper?
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    Why did she order you to drive her friend home? Unless she was in an alc ol induced coma this shis unacceptable. The worst part being how r de and disrespectful she was to you while you were doing her favours
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    smk122588 She's talking to you like this while you're doing HER friend a favor?
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    AstroHealer222. NOR she doesn't get to keep the keys at all at this point. I know it's a small snapshot of your relationship, but this is really selfish af behavior.
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    The fact that she didn't wanna give you YOUR keys in the first place was super weird and downright abive. If this was a reverse S situation what would you think ppl would say???
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    Aggravating_Job_... I'd pack her sh up and tell her to go. She has no respect for you or your time or your house for that matter. You stay, you're just letting her know it's OK to do these things.
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    DillionM⚫ Get the fob ditch the girl
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    Responsible_Bird... If anything, you're under- reacting.
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